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Mar 27, 2020  0  0  390

1ST DAY OF THE 21 DAYS

 We are in confusing times.

 While we are busy fighting wars in our heads.

 The world is fighting a virus that is picking us off one by on...



Apr 20, 2020  0  0  429

ARE YOU HAVING A TOUGH DAY OR LIFE

I had a very tough week, in fact, the toughest since 2020 began. I don't know how to feel about it all I know is that I was challenged by my behaviors, personality and of a cause other universal aspects that are outside my control. Like a tenant w...



Apr 17, 2020  0  0  433

22ND DAY OF LOCKDOWN SOUTH AFRICA

 You are alone in this fight.

 No matter how much you feel you want to belong, you are alone.

 This is good because it will be your source of strength and hope.

 You see no matter how many people surroun...



Apr 16, 2020  0  0  410

21ST DAY OF THE 21 DAYS

Have a reason or something that helps you stay your course.

 Too many things are happening at the moment.

 The economy is weakening.

 People are losing jobs.

 People are getting sick, and death i...



Apr 10, 2020  0  0  422

15TH DAY OF THE 21 DAYS

It is sinking in people's minds that things will never be normal.

Prepare yourself for an uncertain future.

It may be difficult but at least it will be different and more often different is good.



Mar 28, 2020  0  0  415

2ND DAY OF THE 21 DAYS

Yesterday was all right. At least I did not spend an evening in the corners of my comforts.

70 minutes on the treadmill, 20 minutes of reading, learned to bake brown burger buns and exercised for 60 seconds (Yes 1 minute).

Not forg...



Mar 29, 2020  0  0  411

3RD DAY OF THE 21 DAYS

 Things will not go back to normal. There was never normal.

 What you consider normal was your brain caught up in a loop of comfort with no spark of life in your days.

 Your life is not interesting, and you are not g...



Mar 30, 2020  0  0  417

4TH DAY OF THE 21 DAYS

 Yesterday was alright.

 It started slowly, but eventually picked up.

 I spend my days in the corners of my mind, Where I beat myself up and create a dark world.

 It gets better when I get on top of the ...



Mar 31, 2020  0  0  460

5TH DAY OF THE 21 DAYS

 Another day spend it the corners of my fears.

 Where I scare myself about a horrible future that won't happen. 

 I Did an hour on a treadmill, 2 minutes exercises, I did not read today coming to think about it....



Apr 1, 2020  0  0  388

6TH DAY OF THE 21 DAYS

 My writing and thoughts have been shallow lately.

 Is it because I Am writing truthfully or??

 I mean I Am documenting how I spend my days. 

 I am not borrowing anyone's words but expressing what m...



Apr 2, 2020  0  0  418

7TH DAY OF THE 21 DAYS

 I ended up conversing with my partner about good habits and bad habits.

 How the conversation came to be, I don't know. All I know is that I was told that masturbation and sex are my bad habits.

 I was attacked for ...



Apr 3, 2020  0  0  386

8TH DAY OF THE 21 DAYS

I feel like Bob Dylan in his song "The Times They Are a-Changin'" is speaking to the current times, especially with the (COVID-19) on a killing spree

I visit Twitter and every time I read complaints of people wanting the  "21 Days Loc...



Apr 4, 2020  0  0  411

9TH DAY OF THE 21 DAYS

I missed my daily posting from the 7th day.

That does not mean my mind stopped working, or the world stopped turning.

I kept my routine, just that I did a minimum on reading, writing, and the treadmill.

During these past fe...



Apr 5, 2020  0  0  390

10 TH DAY OF THE 21 DAYS

 I am moving away from posting about my daily activities.

 I spend the most time with my family. There is not much to say.

 For example, my partners spend lots of time watching movies.

 My kids are alway...



Apr 6, 2020  0  0  419

11TH DAY OF THE 21 DAYS

 I got a little panic attack. 

 I don't know what happened but I think I caught a little cold from the weekend's rain.

 I woke up feeling well. I took a bath and started cooking and baking.

 After t...



Apr 7, 2020  0  0  379

12TH DAY OF THE 21 DAYS

12th day into the 21 days lockdown, I just broke down.

 Fear has found my spirit.

 I am worried about my business.

 In all my worries I remember that worries won't make it ANY better.

 The best I...



Apr 8, 2020  0  0  410

13TH DAY OF THE 21 DAYS

 I am writing this letter to myself.

 Yesterday a virus caught my mind.

 I am swimming in fear.

 Where will the next customer come from?

 How am I going to pay my levies and taxes?

&...



Apr 9, 2020  0  0  409

14TH DAY OF THE 21 DAYS

 I am writing these words to myself.

 Today I just want to be grateful.

 Thank the universe for the great abundance of opportunities.

 I always find solutions and I know without the universe's great inte...



Apr 11, 2020  0  0  394

16TH DAY OF THE 21 DAYS

Keeping a healthy routine is very crucial for those who are after a certain goal.

 Your healthy routine is not mine and mine, not yours. 

 What works for you might not work for me.

 My routine is boring ...



Apr 12, 2020  0  0  712

17TH DAY OF THE 21 DAYS

I remember when I was happy at a tender age.

 I was white like a dove, there was nothing but the truth in my feathers.

 Then I got older.

 I don't know if it got this way, or it started with a lie.

&n...



Apr 13, 2020  0  0  426

18TH DAY OF THE 21 DAYS

This pandemic reminds me of Job.

 He asked if we shall only accept good from God and not adversity.

 I am feeling the heat of COVID-19 in my business.

 It was joyful and amazing when I gained properties.

...



Apr 14, 2020  0  0  406

19TH DAY OF THE 21 DAYS

 All you have is life.

 You can complain.

 Curse and cry.

 You can shout, get angry and become sad.

 You can jump and do it all.

 Say how unfair things are. You can subject your...



Apr 15, 2020  0  0  408

20TH DAY OF THE 21 DAYS

 My mother believes in me.

 She does not understand how much that means to me.

 The best thing is that I believe in myself.

 Thank you, Mama.



Apr 25, 2020  0  0  419

LIES ON MY TOUNGUE

I remember when I was happy at a tender age.

I was white like a dove, there was nothing but the truth in my feathers.

Then I got older.

I don't know if it got this way, or it started with a lie.

Today I Am in my aut...



Apr 25, 2020  0  0  416

EVERYDAY IS A CHANCE AND A GIFT

I think every day is a chance, another gift. How you unwrap your gift is your responsibility and use your chance is entirely up to you.

"Every day is a potential see that we can grow into something beautiful," said Artist Austine Kleon.



Apr 25, 2020  0  0  613

REMEMBER TO RECONNECT WITH YOURSELF

Make time to reconnect with yourself every day, especially before bedtime.

The daily cares have taken you further and further from yourself. 

That is why it is important to carve 15 - 30 minutes of your time before bedtime to ...



Apr 26, 2020  0  0  404

PROCESS YOUR EMOTIONS

Pain, disappointment or negative emotions cannot be avoided. The best way to deal with them is to allow the process to take over.

To lead you and guide you, but better you can speed up the process by keeping a daily journal and meditate as...



Apr 27, 2020  0  0  397

SO...I QUIT MY JOB

I just feel like letting it out but either than that I have no reason to talk about it.

I have been employed in government for a full seven years.

I started in my early twenties, in fact, I was twenty when I got an opportunity to s...



Apr 27, 2020  0  0  412

FIGHT ON

It's an everyday fight to keep a dream alive and better to realise it.

You don't get a day off.

So fight on and never stop for anything or anyone.



Apr 29, 2020  0  0  637

FALLING OFF THE WAGON

I caught myself complaining about my days. How I feel that I could do more. How I am so not motivated to do the work that I must do.

Those who have been following my work know that this behavior goes against everything I do and talk about....



Apr 29, 2020  0  0  625

EVERY DAY IS AN OPPORTUNITY TO GROW AND DEVELOP IN SOMETHING

I choose to grow in knowledge and skill.

I choose to grow in wisdom.

I choose to be kind, patience and be calm.

You will choose differently because of your goals and where you are in life.

Do not let a new day go to...



Apr 29, 2020  0  0  446

FOCUS ON THE GOOD YOU STILL HAVE...FOCUS ON THE GOOD YOU CAN STILL DO

Who do you look to when troubles creep in?

Times like this force us to confront our reality, our source of strength, and trust.

Truth is that we don't know when things are going to get better. And things might get worse.

Pe...



Apr 30, 2020  0  0  399

SHARE YOUR PAIN - KEEP A JOURNAL

Not everybody is blessed with a confidant or that one friend that can make them feel ok on rough days.

Keep a pen and a page close. They will be there for you when you need to scream out the hurt and pain. 

You can be surround...



May 1, 2020  0  0  476

START WHERE YOU ARE WITH WHAT YOU HAVE

In my book, Embrace Change: Flourishing in times of challenges and crisis  I spoke about the powerful tools or resources you already possess.

Resourc...



May 3, 2020  0  0  385

WHEN READING IS NOT ENOUGH

Anyone who has ever come into contact with me knows that I regard reading above many activities.

But there are times where reading is not enough.

By this I mean you read and so what?

The magic is in the implementations and ...



May 3, 2020  0  0  370

NOT TO READ IS TO DIE

Lately, I been reading more than my usual reading.

Behind it all, I am running away from myself really.

It just another mechanism for dealing with anxiety and fear of the unknown.

Be that it may I learned that all my effort...



May 5, 2020  0  0  388

DO THIS WHEN YOU FEEL LONELY AND EMPLY

If you are lonely, reach out to someone whom you know will be excited to hear from you.
If you wish that someone would call you, pick up your phone. Call someone who will appreciate hearing from you.
If you want to hear that you are love...



May 7, 2020  0  0  833

BEST TIME TO BE ALIVE

We decide what to make out of every minute given to us. We decide what we make out of every situation.

In the deciding process make sure that your decisions are not subjective, selfish, and filled with unnecessary baggage of emotions.

...



May 8, 2020  0  0  354

SKILLS SAVED MY LIFE SERIES

Someone is ready to pay for your skills, I do not know who but I know for a fact that your skills are worth something good when improved and used for their intended purpose.

I am the living proof of a person transformed by skills and basic...



May 9, 2020  0  0  421

SKILLS SAVED MY LIFE: PROVE YOURSELF WORTHY

"It is better to be prepared for an opportunity and not have one than to have an opportunity and not be prepared." – Whitney M. Young

 

You may be pressed hard by challenges today, perhaps you been looking for t...



May 9, 2020  0  0  422

SKILLS SAVED MY LIFE: REMEMBER WHERE WE COME FROM

The government is saying that an unemployed young person today will likely face the next 40 years in poverty if they do not get employment after leaving school. This will lead to social alienation and depression, social problems, and loss of contr...



May 11, 2020  0  0  356

PRIORITISE YOUR PROSPERITY

It is one of "life’s" priorities to prosper you, make it your priority also to be prosperous. Life has availed all the resources at your disposal.

Get addicted and get obsessed with prosperity to a point that you cannot live any othe...



May 11, 2020  0  0  419

BE THE COMPANY YOU WANT TO WORK FOR, CREATE THE LIFE YOU WANT

Perhaps you have been applying for jobs from left to right, sending CVs to all corners of the world but no one seems to answer your call to provide them with your best skills and services.

That is a sign, a sign that says it is time for yo...



May 11, 2020  0  0  392

CREATE THE LIFE THAT YOU WANT

I believe that you deserve to live a purpose-driven life that is filled with success, satisfaction, blessings, and dreams that come true all the time. The heart of this book focuses on you and the life that you want to create for yourself. You are...



May 13, 2020  0  0  367

AUTHENTICITY IS THE WAY TO GO

You will lose every time you try to be like them

You will win every time you be you.

Trying to please everyone never worked, stop it now!

Trying to do what they do will frustrate you, do what you can do see what happens

...



May 15, 2020  0  0  505

SNIPPET FROM MY BOOK EMBRACE CHANGE - A GREAT TIME TO BE SUCCESSFUL

Look at the times’ oh child of earth; do we not have night then followed by a day or have a day then followed by night? Do we not have sunshine when we awake then later have noon? Do we not have winter which later gives way for spring, summe...



May 18, 2020  0  0  401

GET UP, YOU HAVE A DREAM THAT MUST COME TRUE

Whether you believe it or not, know it or not, your future is in your hands.

You are fully responsible for every situation that befalls you.

The power to rise and fall is yours to fully take advantage of.

Every breath you t...



May 25, 2020  0  0  393

DAILY STOIC - ANCIENT WISDOM FOR EVERYDAY LIFE

I won't waste time telling you about stoic philosophy. Here is a website where you can read all you can about stoic philosophy.

I am sharing this with you because I feel and know that some of you may g...



May 25, 2020  0  0  410

LIVING WITH MYSELF - MY VOICE IS IMPORTANT

In some way, somewhere in our lives we all trying to find out who we really are.

This journey at some point in our lives becomes very important. Especially for those who would want to live their lives authentically and to find their true v...



Jun 17, 2020  0  0  273

YOU DO YOURS AND I'LL DO MINE

I write for many reasons.

Today I may write because I want to let go of anger, pain, or stress.

Tomorrow I may write because I am happy and excited.

The next day or any other day I can write because I can and I just have th...



Jul 6, 2020  0  0  228

CURE FOR MY PAIN

Your soul is a place that is open when all the wants and wishes disappear
Stillness is the key to open the place
Your soul is a place you can't find
The only thing you should know is that there is no cure for ...



Jul 24, 2020  0  0  107

UNTITLED

Just like anyone, I am well today then I am not the next
I let my self go, now I am looking and I can find me
I need me to know me, to be me
I can't do this alone and I am not here
I am up and then...



Jul 25, 2020  0  0  172

NOTHING BUT AIR

29 years from decay
Kneeling in the same style, whispering the same words million times
Millions of souls across the universe whispering the same prayer for the help that never came
Its a lie though disguised ...



Jul 27, 2020  0  0  206

WE GET TO START OVER

Starting all over again may not be all fun but we need it.
Every week when I logon to my social media I read another terrible story of loss.
Lives, businesses, and the will to fight.
Some loss can be recovered...



Jul 30, 2020  0  0  182

ALL WE CAN DO IS HOPE FOR A BETTER DAY

All we can do is hope for a better day and continue to do what is right.
Sometimes It Just Doesn't Work, You fail anyways and it feels bad but it is good.
I mean you read all the recommended books.
You binged-...



Jul 30, 2020  0  0  144

GOOD FRIENDS MAKES OUR DAYS BETTER

A good friend just reminded me that we live in an abundance of opportunities.

His words were "Don't worry, with you everything is possible"

I accepted these words and remembered that I have pushed through darker times.

In g...



Jul 30, 2020  0  0  157

I WILL TAKE THIS LOSS

I just received the news, business-wise they will hurt my profits or the business itself.

A tenant just dropped me without a warning. Yes, there are laws that protect a landlord but on a human level somethings are not that easy.

Fo...



Jul 30, 2020  0  0  306

SINCERE EFFORTS NEVER GO TO WASTE

Only you can determine what is sincere for you.

Only you can determine what is a success for you.

In all of these remember to be honest with yourself, be realistic while keeping a sense of imagination.

Be as authentic as yo...



Aug 24, 2020  0  0  234

WRITING JOURNEY

This post ...



Sep 9, 2020  0  0  138

I KNOW THE TYPE OF PERSON YOU ARE THEY SAY

"I know the type of guy you are", they say. As if they have seen it all.

The problem is that the people who say these words use their own filters and lower standards to measure up people against their flawed checklist.

The minute t...



Sep 9, 2020  0  0  187

WE USE CULTURE AND TRADITION AS AN EXCUSE FOR NOT TO THINK AND CARVE NEW BETTER WAYS

Think of what a good life is for you.

Filter out all the culture and traditions and think about what a happy life is for you.

Don't get caught up in the " I want to get married," "I want to..." I want..." kind of life before you si...



Sep 10, 2020  0  0  175

CHECK YOUR FEELINGS

What you feel today won't matter tomorrow, the next year, or 5 years later.

Be careful not to let your feelings run your day.

How you feel right now, is it something that is directly linked to you?

Is it something that is h...



Sep 18, 2020  0  0  246

BEING HUMAN

Being Human

We feel (Anger, Love, Frustration, Happiness, and More)

We think

We fuck up

We make up

Our days are mixed up with the above.

I am Human,

I don't have an explanation of why at the ...



Sep 22, 2020  0  0  201

ETERNALLY GRATEFUL TO THE UNIVERSE

Eternally Grateful to the universe for the great providence....



Oct 4, 2020  0  0  49

WIHTOUT DISCIPLINE, AN EMPIRE CAN CRUMBLE IN A DAY, IN MY CASE $113

This past Friday I managed to make $113 within a period of an hour.

The plan was to repeatedly employ the same strategy the whole day in hopes to multiply my profits.

A friend phoned, asked that we go out for drinks. I said no I ca...



Oct 20, 2020  0  0  5

GOOD ROLE MODEL AND HERO, THANOS

I went back in time. The younger version of me agrees that Thanos is an excellent role model for us.

The future me, sent a message to say excellent choice before I could travel to the future.

This is what we learned from Thanos.