Think of what a good life is for you.

Filter out all the culture and traditions and think about what a happy life is for you.

Don't get caught up in the " I want to get married," "I want to..." I want..." kind of life before you sit down and consider what, "Marriage and the rest of the bullshit that you found on this earth" mean to you.

Define your best life and remove definitions and titles away from your life. Then and only then we can start talking.

I will continue adding to this post, or you can via commenting. I feel this is important to expand on. Many people fail and are very unhappy and depressed because they live their lives based on the standards of people who couldn't think any better than they are today.