Mar 30, 2020  0  0  325

4TH DAY OF THE 21 DAYS

 Yesterday was alright.

 It started slowly, but eventually picked up.

 I spend my days in the corners of my mind, Where I beat myself up and create a dark world.

 It gets better when I get on top of the ...



Mar 31, 2020  0  0  348

5TH DAY OF THE 21 DAYS

 Another day spend it the corners of my fears.

 Where I scare myself about a horrible future that won't happen. 

 I Did an hour on a treadmill, 2 minutes exercises, I did not read today coming to think about it....



Apr 2, 2020  0  0  333

7TH DAY OF THE 21 DAYS

 I ended up conversing with my partner about good habits and bad habits.

 How the conversation came to be, I don't know. All I know is that I was told that masturbation and sex are my bad habits.

 I was attacked for ...



Apr 4, 2020  0  0  317

9TH DAY OF THE 21 DAYS

I missed my daily posting from the 7th day.

That does not mean my mind stopped working, or the world stopped turning.

I kept my routine, just that I did a minimum on reading, writing, and the treadmill.

During these past fe...



Apr 9, 2020  0  0  331

14TH DAY OF THE 21 DAYS

 I am writing these words to myself.

 Today I just want to be grateful.

 Thank the universe for the great abundance of opportunities.

 I always find solutions and I know without the universe's great inte...



Apr 15, 2020  0  0  321

20TH DAY OF THE 21 DAYS

 My mother believes in me.

 She does not understand how much that means to me.

 The best thing is that I believe in myself.

 Thank you, Mama.



Apr 17, 2020  0  0  345

22ND DAY OF LOCKDOWN SOUTH AFRICA

 You are alone in this fight.

 No matter how much you feel you want to belong, you are alone.

 This is good because it will be your source of strength and hope.

 You see no matter how many people surroun...



Apr 20, 2020  0  0  4607

I FIND IT DIFFICULT TO LOOK AWAY AND MIND MY OWN BUSINESS

Look it is impossible to look away or mind your own business when the world is burning. The world doesn't have to burn on a larger scale for you to care for.

Maybe it is none of my business or maybe it is but my neighbor does not provide f...



Apr 20, 2020  0  0  339

ARE YOU HAVING A TOUGH DAY OR LIFE

I had a very tough week, in fact, the toughest since 2020 began. I don't know how to feel about it all I know is that I was challenged by my behaviors, personality and of a cause other universal aspects that are outside my control. Like a tenant w...



Apr 20, 2020  0  0  341

YOU OWN NOTHING

You are hurt and frustrated because you are in an ownership or possessive mindset.

Anything that has the capacity to think and make choices cannot be owned and controlled.

This is your "My Boyfriend, My Girlfriend, My Wife, My Husb...



Apr 10, 2020  0  0  332

15TH DAY OF THE 21 DAYS

It is sinking in people's minds that things will never be normal.

Prepare yourself for an uncertain future.

It may be difficult but at least it will be different and more often different is good.



Mar 28, 2020  0  0  322

2ND DAY OF THE 21 DAYS

Yesterday was all right. At least I did not spend an evening in the corners of my comforts.

70 minutes on the treadmill, 20 minutes of reading, learned to bake brown burger buns and exercised for 60 seconds (Yes 1 minute).

Not forg...



Mar 29, 2020  0  0  315

3RD DAY OF THE 21 DAYS

 Things will not go back to normal. There was never normal.

 What you consider normal was your brain caught up in a loop of comfort with no spark of life in your days.

 Your life is not interesting, and you are not g...



Apr 1, 2020  0  0  307

6TH DAY OF THE 21 DAYS

 My writing and thoughts have been shallow lately.

 Is it because I Am writing truthfully or??

 I mean I Am documenting how I spend my days. 

 I am not borrowing anyone's words but expressing what m...



Apr 3, 2020  0  0  300

8TH DAY OF THE 21 DAYS

I feel like Bob Dylan in his song "The Times They Are a-Changin'" is speaking to the current times, especially with the (COVID-19) on a killing spree

I visit Twitter and every time I read complaints of people wanting the  "21 Days Loc...



Apr 5, 2020  0  0  311

10 TH DAY OF THE 21 DAYS

 I am moving away from posting about my daily activities.

 I spend the most time with my family. There is not much to say.

 For example, my partners spend lots of time watching movies.

 My kids are alway...



Apr 6, 2020  0  0  326

11TH DAY OF THE 21 DAYS

 I got a little panic attack. 

 I don't know what happened but I think I caught a little cold from the weekend's rain.

 I woke up feeling well. I took a bath and started cooking and baking.

 After t...



Apr 7, 2020  0  0  300

12TH DAY OF THE 21 DAYS

12th day into the 21 days lockdown, I just broke down.

 Fear has found my spirit.

 I am worried about my business.

 In all my worries I remember that worries won't make it ANY better.

 The best I...



Apr 8, 2020  0  0  311

13TH DAY OF THE 21 DAYS

 I am writing this letter to myself.

 Yesterday a virus caught my mind.

 I am swimming in fear.

 Where will the next customer come from?

 How am I going to pay my levies and taxes?

&...



Apr 11, 2020  0  0  323

16TH DAY OF THE 21 DAYS

Keeping a healthy routine is very crucial for those who are after a certain goal.

 Your healthy routine is not mine and mine, not yours. 

 What works for you might not work for me.

 My routine is boring ...



Apr 12, 2020  0  0  540

17TH DAY OF THE 21 DAYS

I remember when I was happy at a tender age.

 I was white like a dove, there was nothing but the truth in my feathers.

 Then I got older.

 I don't know if it got this way, or it started with a lie.

&n...



Apr 13, 2020  0  0  334

18TH DAY OF THE 21 DAYS

This pandemic reminds me of Job.

 He asked if we shall only accept good from God and not adversity.

 I am feeling the heat of COVID-19 in my business.

 It was joyful and amazing when I gained properties.

...



Apr 14, 2020  0  0  318

19TH DAY OF THE 21 DAYS

 All you have is life.

 You can complain.

 Curse and cry.

 You can shout, get angry and become sad.

 You can jump and do it all.

 Say how unfair things are. You can subject your...



Apr 25, 2020  0  0  321

EVERYDAY IS A CHANCE AND A GIFT

I think every day is a chance, another gift. How you unwrap your gift is your responsibility and use your chance is entirely up to you.

"Every day is a potential see that we can grow into something beautiful," said Artist Austine Kleon.



Apr 25, 2020  0  0  374

THE MAIN SOURCE OF YOUR HURT AND SUFFERING

Every time I search for the source of pain I always arrive at possession.

In my work, I happen to interact or get to listen to people who are going through pain.

The pain is mostly from relationships. Relationships involve another,...



Apr 26, 2020  0  0  314

PROCESS YOUR EMOTIONS

Pain, disappointment or negative emotions cannot be avoided. The best way to deal with them is to allow the process to take over.

To lead you and guide you, but better you can speed up the process by keeping a daily journal and meditate as...



Apr 27, 2020  0  0  342

EVERY DAY IS A FUCK-UP DAY

We fuck up every day especially us who want to do better or well. If you are not fucking up, it means your life is boring as shit and you are better off dead. 

Take a risk, learn something new, fuck it up, and start again.

You...



Apr 27, 2020  0  0  312

SO...I QUIT MY JOB

I just feel like letting it out but either than that I have no reason to talk about it.

I have been employed in government for a full seven years.

I started in my early twenties, in fact, I was twenty when I got an opportunity to s...



Apr 27, 2020  0  0  326

FIGHT ON

It's an everyday fight to keep a dream alive and better to realise it.

You don't get a day off.

So fight on and never stop for anything or anyone.



Apr 29, 2020  0  0  527

FALLING OFF THE WAGON

I caught myself complaining about my days. How I feel that I could do more. How I am so not motivated to do the work that I must do.

Those who have been following my work know that this behavior goes against everything I do and talk about....



Apr 29, 2020  0  0  533

EVERY DAY IS AN OPPORTUNITY TO GROW AND DEVELOP IN SOMETHING

I choose to grow in knowledge and skill.

I choose to grow in wisdom.

I choose to be kind, patience and be calm.

You will choose differently because of your goals and where you are in life.

Do not let a new day go to...



May 1, 2020  0  0  376

START WHERE YOU ARE WITH WHAT YOU HAVE

In my book, Embrace Change: Flourishing in times of challenges and crisis  I spoke about the powerful tools or resources you already possess.

Resourc...



May 3, 2020  0  0  301

WHEN READING IS NOT ENOUGH

Anyone who has ever come into contact with me knows that I regard reading above many activities.

But there are times where reading is not enough.

By this I mean you read and so what?

The magic is in the implementations and ...



May 9, 2020  0  0  325

SKILLS SAVED MY LIFE: PROVE YOURSELF WORTHY

"It is better to be prepared for an opportunity and not have one than to have an opportunity and not be prepared." – Whitney M. Young

 

You may be pressed hard by challenges today, perhaps you been looking for t...



May 9, 2020  0  0  308

SKILLS SAVED MY LIFE: REMEMBER WHERE WE COME FROM

The government is saying that an unemployed young person today will likely face the next 40 years in poverty if they do not get employment after leaving school. This will lead to social alienation and depression, social problems, and loss of contr...



May 11, 2020  0  0  316

BE THE COMPANY YOU WANT TO WORK FOR, CREATE THE LIFE YOU WANT

Perhaps you have been applying for jobs from left to right, sending CVs to all corners of the world but no one seems to answer your call to provide them with your best skills and services.

That is a sign, a sign that says it is time for yo...



May 11, 2020  0  0  289

CREATE THE LIFE THAT YOU WANT

I believe that you deserve to live a purpose-driven life that is filled with success, satisfaction, blessings, and dreams that come true all the time. The heart of this book focuses on you and the life that you want to create for yourself. You are...



May 18, 2020  0  0  298

GET UP, YOU HAVE A DREAM THAT MUST COME TRUE

Whether you believe it or not, know it or not, your future is in your hands.

You are fully responsible for every situation that befalls you.

The power to rise and fall is yours to fully take advantage of.

Every breath you t...



Jul 24, 2020  0  0  31

UNTITLED

Just like anyone, I am well today then I am not the next
I let my self go, now I am looking and I can find me
I need me to know me, to be me
I can't do this alone and I am not here
I am up and then...