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Apr 3, 2020  0  0  300

8TH DAY OF THE 21 DAYS

I feel like Bob Dylan in his song "The Times They Are a-Changin'" is speaking to the current times, especially with the (COVID-19) on a killing spree

I visit Twitter and every time I read complaints of people wanting the  "21 Days Loc...



Apr 5, 2020  0  0  311

10 TH DAY OF THE 21 DAYS

 I am moving away from posting about my daily activities.

 I spend the most time with my family. There is not much to say.

 For example, my partners spend lots of time watching movies.

 My kids are alway...



Apr 6, 2020  0  0  326

11TH DAY OF THE 21 DAYS

 I got a little panic attack. 

 I don't know what happened but I think I caught a little cold from the weekend's rain.

 I woke up feeling well. I took a bath and started cooking and baking.

 After t...



Mar 27, 2020  0  0  304

1ST DAY OF THE 21 DAYS

 We are in confusing times.

 While we are busy fighting wars in our heads.

 The world is fighting a virus that is picking us off one by on...



Apr 20, 2020  0  0  339

ARE YOU HAVING A TOUGH DAY OR LIFE

I had a very tough week, in fact, the toughest since 2020 began. I don't know how to feel about it all I know is that I was challenged by my behaviors, personality and of a cause other universal aspects that are outside my control. Like a tenant w...



Apr 20, 2020  0  0  341

YOU OWN NOTHING

You are hurt and frustrated because you are in an ownership or possessive mindset.

Anything that has the capacity to think and make choices cannot be owned and controlled.

This is your "My Boyfriend, My Girlfriend, My Wife, My Husb...



Apr 20, 2020  0  0  4607

I FIND IT DIFFICULT TO LOOK AWAY AND MIND MY OWN BUSINESS

Look it is impossible to look away or mind your own business when the world is burning. The world doesn't have to burn on a larger scale for you to care for.

Maybe it is none of my business or maybe it is but my neighbor does not provide f...



Apr 17, 2020  0  0  345

22ND DAY OF LOCKDOWN SOUTH AFRICA

 You are alone in this fight.

 No matter how much you feel you want to belong, you are alone.

 This is good because it will be your source of strength and hope.

 You see no matter how many people surroun...



Apr 16, 2020  0  0  325

21ST DAY OF THE 21 DAYS

Have a reason or something that helps you stay your course.

 Too many things are happening at the moment.

 The economy is weakening.

 People are losing jobs.

 People are getting sick, and death i...



Apr 4, 2020  0  0  317

9TH DAY OF THE 21 DAYS

I missed my daily posting from the 7th day.

That does not mean my mind stopped working, or the world stopped turning.

I kept my routine, just that I did a minimum on reading, writing, and the treadmill.

During these past fe...



Apr 25, 2020  0  0  321

EVERYDAY IS A CHANCE AND A GIFT

I think every day is a chance, another gift. How you unwrap your gift is your responsibility and use your chance is entirely up to you.

"Every day is a potential see that we can grow into something beautiful," said Artist Austine Kleon.



Apr 25, 2020  0  0  339

HOLD ON AND FIGHT ON

Hold on to your kindness, love, respect, and everything that makes a beautiful soul.

Fight on, don't let go of strength, keep your dreams alive.

Allow your vision to guide you. Revisit and consult your inner-self every day to stay ...



Apr 25, 2020  0  0  517

REMEMBER TO RECONNECT WITH YOURSELF

Make time to reconnect with yourself every day, especially before bedtime.

The daily cares have taken you further and further from yourself. 

That is why it is important to carve 15 - 30 minutes of your time before bedtime to ...



Apr 25, 2020  0  0  374

THE MAIN SOURCE OF YOUR HURT AND SUFFERING

Every time I search for the source of pain I always arrive at possession.

In my work, I happen to interact or get to listen to people who are going through pain.

The pain is mostly from relationships. Relationships involve another,...



Apr 26, 2020  0  0  314

PROCESS YOUR EMOTIONS

Pain, disappointment or negative emotions cannot be avoided. The best way to deal with them is to allow the process to take over.

To lead you and guide you, but better you can speed up the process by keeping a daily journal and meditate as...



Apr 27, 2020  0  0  342

EVERY DAY IS A FUCK-UP DAY

We fuck up every day especially us who want to do better or well. If you are not fucking up, it means your life is boring as shit and you are better off dead. 

Take a risk, learn something new, fuck it up, and start again.

You...



Apr 29, 2020  0  0  527

FALLING OFF THE WAGON

I caught myself complaining about my days. How I feel that I could do more. How I am so not motivated to do the work that I must do.

Those who have been following my work know that this behavior goes against everything I do and talk about....



Apr 29, 2020  0  0  533

EVERY DAY IS AN OPPORTUNITY TO GROW AND DEVELOP IN SOMETHING

I choose to grow in knowledge and skill.

I choose to grow in wisdom.

I choose to be kind, patience and be calm.

You will choose differently because of your goals and where you are in life.

Do not let a new day go to...



Apr 29, 2020  0  0  350

FOCUS ON THE GOOD YOU STILL HAVE...FOCUS ON THE GOOD YOU CAN STILL DO

Who do you look to when troubles creep in?

Times like this force us to confront our reality, our source of strength, and trust.

Truth is that we don't know when things are going to get better. And things might get worse.

Pe...



Apr 30, 2020  0  0  308

SHARE YOUR PAIN - KEEP A JOURNAL

Not everybody is blessed with a confidant or that one friend that can make them feel ok on rough days.

Keep a pen and a page close. They will be there for you when you need to scream out the hurt and pain. 

You can be surround...



May 3, 2020  0  0  282

NOT TO READ IS TO DIE

Lately, I been reading more than my usual reading.

Behind it all, I am running away from myself really.

It just another mechanism for dealing with anxiety and fear of the unknown.

Be that it may I learned that all my effort...



May 4, 2020  0  0  292

BEST DAY OF MY LIFE

Today I woke up with the realisation that this is the best day of my life.

I had a good and hopeful dream for my future.

So I am going to be grateful. Not because my hope is restored.

Because I am alive, because I am alive ...



May 5, 2020  0  0  294

DO THIS WHEN YOU FEEL LONELY AND EMPLY

If you are lonely, reach out to someone whom you know will be excited to hear from you.
If you wish that someone would call you, pick up your phone. Call someone who will appreciate hearing from you.
If you want to hear that you are love...



May 7, 2020  0  0  708

BEST TIME TO BE ALIVE

We decide what to make out of every minute given to us. We decide what we make out of every situation.

In the deciding process make sure that your decisions are not subjective, selfish, and filled with unnecessary baggage of emotions.

...



May 8, 2020  0  0  261

SKILLS SAVED MY LIFE SERIES

Someone is ready to pay for your skills, I do not know who but I know for a fact that your skills are worth something good when improved and used for their intended purpose.

I am the living proof of a person transformed by skills and basic...



May 9, 2020  0  0  325

SKILLS SAVED MY LIFE: PROVE YOURSELF WORTHY

"It is better to be prepared for an opportunity and not have one than to have an opportunity and not be prepared." – Whitney M. Young

 

You may be pressed hard by challenges today, perhaps you been looking for t...



May 9, 2020  0  0  308

SKILLS SAVED MY LIFE: REMEMBER WHERE WE COME FROM

The government is saying that an unemployed young person today will likely face the next 40 years in poverty if they do not get employment after leaving school. This will lead to social alienation and depression, social problems, and loss of contr...



May 11, 2020  0  0  271

PRIORITISE YOUR PROSPERITY

It is one of "life’s" priorities to prosper you, make it your priority also to be prosperous. Life has availed all the resources at your disposal.

Get addicted and get obsessed with prosperity to a point that you cannot live any othe...



May 11, 2020  0  0  316

BE THE COMPANY YOU WANT TO WORK FOR, CREATE THE LIFE YOU WANT

Perhaps you have been applying for jobs from left to right, sending CVs to all corners of the world but no one seems to answer your call to provide them with your best skills and services.

That is a sign, a sign that says it is time for yo...



May 11, 2020  0  0  289

CREATE THE LIFE THAT YOU WANT

I believe that you deserve to live a purpose-driven life that is filled with success, satisfaction, blessings, and dreams that come true all the time. The heart of this book focuses on you and the life that you want to create for yourself. You are...



May 13, 2020  0  0  274

AUTHENTICITY IS THE WAY TO GO

You will lose every time you try to be like them

You will win every time you be you.

Trying to please everyone never worked, stop it now!

Trying to do what they do will frustrate you, do what you can do see what happens

...



May 15, 2020  0  0  374

SNIPPET FROM MY BOOK EMBRACE CHANGE - A GREAT TIME TO BE SUCCESSFUL

Look at the times’ oh child of earth; do we not have night then followed by a day or have a day then followed by night? Do we not have sunshine when we awake then later have noon? Do we not have winter which later gives way for spring, summe...



May 18, 2020  0  0  298

GET UP, YOU HAVE A DREAM THAT MUST COME TRUE

Whether you believe it or not, know it or not, your future is in your hands.

You are fully responsible for every situation that befalls you.

The power to rise and fall is yours to fully take advantage of.

Every breath you t...



May 25, 2020  0  0  300

LIVING WITH MYSELF - MY VOICE IS IMPORTANT

In some way, somewhere in our lives we all trying to find out who we really are.

This journey at some point in our lives becomes very important. Especially for those who would want to live their lives authentically and to find their true v...